🔍 The Monday Diagnosis: We've Collectively Forgotten How to Say Hello

Here's something I've been thinking about since approximately the moment I pressed "send" this morning and then immediately put my phone in a drawer like it was a live grenade.

Human beings have been starting conversations with strangers for roughly 300,000 years. In caves. In markets. At wells. At dances. In pubs. On trains. In queues. At bus stops. For THREE HUNDRED THOUSAND YEARS we managed to walk up to people, open our mouths, and say some version of "Hello, I noticed you exist, do you want to exist in the same general area for a bit?"

And then we invented dating apps. And suddenly nobody can do it anymore.

Not because we got stupider. Not because language deteriorated. Not because we lost the ability to form sentences. But because the STAKES got weird. Because somewhere in the last decade, we collectively decided that the opening message on a dating app was not a casual hello but a high-stakes audition that would be graded, screenshotted, potentially shared, possibly mocked, and used to determine your entire romantic future. 📱⚖️

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